Sometimes …

This is a form of 2016 retrospective, with a verbal nod to Paula’s last Thursday’s Special for 2016. May 2017 harmonise with your desires, and thank you for spending time with me in the year now gone.

Sometimes the quiet of deep night is smashed by the amplified booming of heavy metal from a car stopping for a red light, or in summer the impossibly loud scream of a motorbike. Sometimes as winter approaches an old lady, rugged up in a down jacket, a scarf, a knitted hat, stands outside the minimarket selling strings of dried mushrooms. Sometimes I mutter “dzień dobry” when I mean “dziękeuje”, but only, these days, when I’m very tired or flustered. Sometimes I dare a bit of Polish for simple transactions and I’m invariably answered in English. Sometimes twenty five seagulls perch on the hoarding advertising cheap loans, or a troll movie, or handcream, or chocolate. Sometimes I catch a tram to nowhere in particular, just to see what’s there. Sometimes, but not very often, I lose my calm demeanour with the twins and just wish they’d HURRY UP. Sometimes, and more frequently lately, I long for the bush, the beach, the river, the ocean, a winding dirt track, even a blazing sun. Sometimes I want someone to take charge of me so I don’t have to think for myself, but always I know I’d resent it straight away. Sometimes I realise how lucky I am to be living somewhere else for a year and to spend so much time with my Polish grandchildren. Sometimes (make that often) I develop an addiction – for photographing reflection in puddles or the patterns in bird shit, for Netflix, for sushi, for Harry Bosch novels, for booking online – but rarely for housekeeping or for knitting the jumper I’ve been making for my son for three years. Sometimes the three taxi drivers in the street below the apartment stand around at daybreak, hands wrapped around steaming coffee. Sometimes an old man shuffles through the park, collecting cans from rubbish bins and crushing them before he puts them in his tattered plastic bag. Sometimes (all the time) people come up behind me talking avidly, once a sign of madness, now mere attachment to a mobile phone. Sometimes (once, anyway) an ageing woman dozes through Solomon’s song in “Mother Courage” even though she’s been waiting especially to hear it. Sometimes a mother and her elegant daughter, now as old as she once was more than half a lifetime ago, settle down together in Mozaika or Regeneracja for lunch and a yarn. Sometimes a dog trots through the parkland with a collar luminous in the dusk or wearing a jacket with a hood, or playing with a stick or a ball or a frisbee, or harbouring a sinister intention to steal a ham bun. Sometimes a crow stands in the middle of the road with a nut in its beak, trying to crack it on the hard surface, or cunningly leaving it there for a passing car to break open. Sometimes a woman steps down onto the tram tracks repeatedly to see if the tram is coming. Sometimes the traffic lights on ul Puławska get out of synch, and you can no longer cross three segments in one go. Sometimes it snows and the twins catch snowflakes on their noses and tongues, and recognise dog tracks, and make their own. Sometimes when bad things happen to friends I wish prayer was something I believed in. Sometimes I am so tired the alarm goes off intermittently for forty five minutes before I hear it. Sometimes I meet my daughter’s friends who make award-winning films; trek in Peru; climb walls in winter; come from Siberia to study in Poland; work as film therapists. Sometimes serendipity strikes: receptionist, doctor and injectionist all speak English; inspiration descends when the twins are being recalcitrant; a tractor comes through a grand courtyard entrance just as I take a photo. Sometimes everyone’s on the landing outside the apartment at the same time: I unlocking the door; a workman carrying three long planks; the cleaner with two buckets and a mop; the upstairs neighbour with a pizza; the twins doing a preliminary disrobe. Sometimes my son in law asks me questions that take me aback and have me rethinking many things.

Sometimes (always) I feel completely overwhelmed by love for my family.


You might be wondering why I’m writing like this. There’s a whole chapter in Orhan Pamuk’s  The museum of innocence written this way, as he encapsulates a vision of his character’s 1980s Istanbul: the city and the emotional landscape. I know he’s a Nobel prize winner and I’m a humble blogger from Potato Point, but something about the impact of this way of creating a city and a person in that city tickled my fancy, and I decided to give it a go. First thing I notice is that it’s not as easy as it looks. How do I sequence my “sometimes”? What exactly are the salient details? How do I create a rhythm from detail to detail? If I’m after random how do I prevent thematic links?

I write my draft longhand in a gap between flu injection and “Deep blue sea” sitting in the glitzy foyer of the Multikino at Złote Tarasy. It’s a while since I’ve written longhand and I enjoy the feel of a new 0.2 felt tip. I raise my eyes to the red walls and the lights, both real and reflected, between each sentence with that spacey feeling that is both thoughtful and observing. As I type it up a few weeks later, I’m thinking about its structure and it’s then all the above questions occur to me.

Here’s an extract from “The museum of innocence” so you can get a sense of what I was aiming at. Füsun is the object of the narrator’s fixation.

Sometimes Tarık Bey and I would discuss the vagaries of the economic situation, man to man, and in low voices that suggested conspiracies, deceptions, and dirty tricks. Sometimes Füsun would go upstairs and linger, which was upsetting. Sometimes the phone would ring, and it would be a wrong number. Sometimes Aunt Nesibe would say, “Next Tuesday I’m going to make candied squash.” Sometimes a gang of three or four men would hurtle down the hill, yelling and singing football songs as they continued in the direction of Tophane. Sometimes I would help Füsun pour coal into the stove. Sometimes I would see a cockroach scurrying across the kitchen floor. Sometimes I would sense that Füsun had taken off her slipper underneath the table. Sometimes the watchman would blow his whistle right in front of the door. Sometimes Füsun would get up to tear off the forgotten pages of the Saatlı Maarif Takvimi one by one, and sometimes I would. Sometimes, when no one was looking, I would take another spoonful of semolina helva. Sometimes the picture on the television would go fuzzy, and Tarık Bey would say, “Could you see what you can do, my girl?” and Füsun would fiddle with a button on the back of the set, while I watched the back of her. 

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A retired Australian who spends a lot of time in Warsaw, and blogs as a way of life.
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20 Responses to Sometimes …

  1. Candy says:

    Yes, I like the gentleness of your ‘sometimes’. How fortunate you are to have children, and grandchildren, and to feel the fullness of love


  2. Sue says:

    I enjoyed this, Meg…gentle, wistful, reflective.
    I am still intending to read Pamuk’s Museum of Innocence, thanks for the reminder!! The closest I’ve got to it is an exhibition at Somerset House last year with vignettes illustrating scenes from the book, curator ed by Pamuk.


  3. Paula says:

    Sometimes I stop by Meg’s blog to marvel at her sensitive and perceptive writing and surprising captures. 🙂
    Last year was a year of watching your grandchildren grow, but you’ve been growing too. Happy New Year, Meg! I look forward to seeing where it takes you next.

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  5. Tish Farrell says:

    This is just beautiful, Meg. Elegaic. Sometimes hints of ‘tristesse’. Of missing something before you’ve left it. Of marking the things you might miss in the future. So many layers, but as transient as the snowflakes on the twins’ noses.

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    • Elegiac is how I’m feeling – and how Pamuk was feeling too. The object of his love was dead. His format gave me a chance to write as I wouldn’t have otherwise written. Your comment is a treasure.

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      • Tish Farrell says:

        I think you truly caught hold of something very important here, Meg. The best writing that one comes up with is like alchemy. It’s like finding the philosopher’s stone, or a crystal that you look through in a certain light and it opens up a path that you have not seen or taken before. And unlocks new ways of expression. You have been doing a great gathering in while in Warsaw, an activity with responses also heightened by the presence of beloved family whom you’re only with for a finite time. There will be a lot to process when you do get home, but it won’t be the end of the quest, perhaps just the beginning 🙂

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  6. Thanks Meg, a most enjoyable read. I appreciate the inner self, coming forth.


  7. Lucid Gypsy says:

    There’s no such thing as mundane is there? Because if that’s what we believe we’re missing out on the beautiful minutiae of life. Wonderful writing Meg, thank you.
    Of course i had to check out ‘Museum of Innocence’ on Amazon, and on the list of results is a book called The forty rules of love, by Elif Shafak. I bought it at Istanbul airport and it’s one that’s always stayed with me.

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    • I’m always on the lookout for something to read: Shafak noted. And thank you for enjoying my writing. I enjoyed writing this more than anything for a long time – maybe I should try longhand again. Snowing here, just light puffs. I’ll warm it and send it with a hug.

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  8. Heyjude says:

    Sometimes your words leave me speechless.

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  9. restlessjo says:

    Am I biased if I say I prefer your version? 🙂 I started a book by Orhan Pamuk (not this one) and really struggled with it. I should give him another try. I thought Tish’s comments were very perceptive.


  10. I really enjoyed this, Meg. You constantly inspire me to go beyond my comfort zone with my own writing, to look at things a little differently and not get to stuck in trying to conform what I see to my own expectations. Thank you, my friend.


    • What a gift your comment is. Thanks so much for your generosity. I’m on a mission to think deeply about structure, my perennial bugbear. The book of essays I’m reading is giving me plenty of food for thought: main question is lazy? or creative? I enjoyed writing this more than anything for a while. Maybe the venue? Maybe using a pen?

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  11. pommepal says:

    Sometimes, only occasionally lately, I pop over to check out old favourite blogs. Thank you for ,sometimes, popping over to mine Meg. I really enjoyed reading this one, the style is memorising, leading me on to the next thought and painting a visual picture in my mind. Amazing how quickly your year has flown by. I’m sure you will miss your second home when you get back here in 2 months time. Then I’m sure you will be busy planning your next visit.


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